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Friday, 6 May 2011

Romance in the Hands of God.

Feeling sort of bummed out and poetic today, so this shall be more of a thoughtful post than the usual noisy ones with all the exclamations marks haha. :)



"No man is an island!" was my primary school teacher's response to my journal entry about feeling left out among my friends.

It remained just a fancy phrase to me until I read that this was how God intended things to be, right at the beginning.

The LORD God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him." - Genesis, 2:18

Then, God went on to create animals and more people. :)

Deep inside we all yearn for attention, for recognition, and for love. That's how we are created to be.

(Of course, God's love is sufficient to fill all emptiness in us, as we are ultimately created to worship. There's a long explanation of how these work out in God's plan but that'll take up a whole other post!)

In my life, I've always been dependent (in varying degrees) on different people, at different times of my life.

When I was young, it was my mother. I remember how terribly sad I felt when the time came for me to walk myself to school, without her holding my hand. I would set out into the dark, barely-breaking dawn with my unreasonably heavy school bag and feel so bad for myself.

A little later, my attention turned to friends. Suddenly, I didn't feel like staying at home all the time anymore. I want to be out with my peers, my confidants who could relate to my every problem.

That lasted till the first taste of betrayal came. Back to family I go! These are the people who would love me to end.

That still remains :), only now there's a new person involved.

He's sort of family, yet not really there yet. He relates with the understanding of a friend and the love of a family. How wonderful the feeling, to have found someone who would hold my hand again, as I brave the darkness of everyday life in this world of weaknesses and temptations.

I bet Adam felt just as great the moment he woke up to see Eve by his side. :)

Who is this special person for you? What have you done to show that he's (or she's) special to you?

It was God who placed him (or her) right there beside you. Have you given thanks for such a lovely gift?





You are loved. Rejoice. :)

Peace,
Shu.

P.S. In case you're in the mood for some music, here's a lovely song that makes me cry on such days. A perfect song for weddings.



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Thursday, 5 May 2011

Comment to your heart's content.

A big, giant, humongantic thank you to Claire of Spinning-threads.blogspot.com for dropping me a mail on my faulty comment box!


I've fixed it (okay actually I only changed the placement of a tick in blogger) and its now working fine! :)

So, as the title suggests~ fire away! 

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Would you miss me?

That's a banned question in my relationship, because I used to ask it 20 times a day, to the point that he feels he can't answer it with sincerity anymore.

I felt another bout of PMS-y emotions on the bus ride home. Before he got off the bus, I asked despite the ban, "Would you miss me?"

- Time paused -

- I prayed for an answer that wouldn't make me feel worse -

"I always do."

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Wednesday, 4 May 2011

Worthy of a Song.

Owww ate too much. PMS still going on!

Anyhow, as promised, I shall take some of my lunch time (I know its late sobs. Citi isn't the only company that never sleeps.) to post one of the songs that Ling and I recorded for our parents for Mother's Day. We thought it wouldn't be nice to just sing for mum so we're including our father in this too! :) You can read up a little more on the project here.

We were too concerned about working first during the recording that we didn't care much about photos. Still, I managed to take these:

Ling, who was very shy to sing in front of John for the first time haha.

And here's John. Thank you kind sir!

We did 8 songs in 5 hours! I wished we had more time to re-record all the flat notes (sobs) and adjust the volumes of various tracks but John (who offered his recording system for free!) was already kind enough to sit 5 hours with us for nothing.

I'll put up all the songs up on youtube in due time, but for starters, here's the first one:



Still
By Hillsong

Hide me now
Under your wings
Cover me
within your mighty hand

When the oceans rise and thunders roar
I will soar with you above the storm
Father you are king over the flood
I will be still and know you are God

Find rest my soul
In Christ alone
Know his power
In quietness and trust

When the oceans rise and thunders roar
I will soar with you above the storm
Father you are king over the flood
I will be still and know you are God

May this song bless my parents and all others who hear it, including you. :)

And may God be pleased! :)

Enjoy!


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Tuesday, 3 May 2011

Drape and Pouf.

It's such a sleepy Tuesday. Even my boss went home early because she almost dozed off on her desk! No such privilege for a mere employee though. Sniffs.


Since there's still a little bit of time before I have to leave for bible study, let's take some time to post some recent outfit pics:

Long sleeves for a gloomy Monday.


Absolutely love those drapes!

My office look today - structured zipper dress with a oversized cardi with pouf sleeves.



Got the top from Amber Avenue and Cardi from MDS Collections. :) Local readers, search the side bar on the right for more yummy online shops!

Okays have to run! Have a nice evening you guys! :)

P.S. I'll try to put up at least one recording tomorrow! :)

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Sunday, 1 May 2011

PMS, Boyfriend and Song Recordings.

I've been eating like a pig (cleaning the plate with space for dessert) and feeling ultra sensitive lately. That can only mean one thing - PMS!

I get the worst mood swings when it hits. Ask my boyfriend, he suffered enough to know. Every little thing has the potential to make me sad or/and angry or/and frustrated. He complains about it every 2 days but guys just don't get it that women are victims of the emotional changes as well. :( You try going :( :) :( :) :D :S :( :( :( in just 1 day! It's not fun, I can tell you that much.

This current bout of hormonal change is making me very sensitive about the amount of quality time I have with the above-mentioned guy of my life. Since our last dinner together on Thursday, I've been seeing him in church last evening, group dinner cum supper with many other church mates on last night (first time at Domino's Pizza - it ain't that big in Singapore! - and it was awesome), and group steamboat dinner with (again) many other church mates tonight. In all three occasions, we hung out with different groups and barely had time to actually talk much to each other! :(

On any other day, I would be perfectly fine with it, as I do love hanging out with the church community. But we're talking about PMS here. I was very much craving for some affection!

He left the steamboat dinner while I was in the middle of a game of Bridge, because some of them went for paintball this afternoon and were already half dead by 10pm. My insides sort of shriveled when he announced that he was going home. The conversation with myself went like this:

"I suppose he isn't very bothered by the fact that we haven't spent much time together."

"He must be tired. That's a valid reason!"

"He doesn't care about spending time with me."

"No no he's tired!!"

Back and forth I argued with myself, until he sent a message over while I was on my way home, which said, "Feels like a long time since I talked to my girlfriend properly! Would you be freeee for breakfast tomorrow? :D"

That pretty much ended the argument between me and myself. :)

Thank God that he feels the same way. Thank God that he messaged! :)






Looking forward to breakfast tomorrow. :)

Thank God for him!

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I didn't join them in paintball today because Ling and I spent 5 hours at John's place for the song recordings! It was great fun. Thank God for good voices today, John's generosity to do this for free and a smooth time of recording!

I'll put up the songs up here soon, so stay tuned! :)

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A typical(ly busy) Saturday!

Saturdays are usually busy for me, as my church service, weekly bible study lessons (I teach a group of lovely 16 year olds! :D), weekly cell group meetings (where we meet and share prayer requests and thanksgivings) all fall on the same day!

Most churches have these gatherings on separate days but since a long time ago, my church started lumping it all in one day. No complains, because its really a joy to be among my church mates every Saturday, singing praises to God together and sharing weekly updates.

I finished my lesson planning earlier than usual today (thank God!) so I had time to have lunch with my parents before heading for church! :)

Took some pics in the car as its another cheery sunny day! :)

yes I didn't iron that top. :(

Rosy blush thanks to Benetint!


Mmmm sun!


A rare jeans day. I usually prefer dresses - slip on and go!

hello new shoes!

It was great to have the whole backseat and my parents to myself for a while. :D I remember I used to be very jealous of my little sister when she first came into the family, because there goes my princess status haha. Not anymore now! She's my best friend! :)

Did you have a good Saturday? :)

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Friday, 29 April 2011

Blogs and such.

Millions and billions of bloggers paint their lives on public spaces everyday.

A mid-tier blogger whom I often read blogs so much about the sunny sides of her life that her readers started to hate themselves for not having what she has.

It definitely wasn't the blogger's intention for her readers feel this way. Yet, however unintentional, she has caused serious self esteem problems to those who follow her closely.

I wish we can just feel happy when we see others with good things. I wish their happiness can make us realize how much we too have in our lives.

I pray that whatever I write in this space would only have positive influences on you.

Hello blogosphere!

Good hair day! Doesn't happen to me often.

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Thursday, 28 April 2011

Sunny day!

Have you been outside today?

The sun was brightly shining while I did my quiet time (which it the time that Christians spend alone time with God by reading the bible and praying), while I took the long train ride to work, while I took a cab from the train station to my office and while I walked a short distance from the taxi to the office building! :)

Couldn't resist taking some pics under the cheery sunlight.

In the sunlit cab.

In the sun!

Someone once said she loves the sun because when it shines on her, it feels like God is giving her a big warm hug.

I love the sun because it reminds me of God's goodness - "He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous." (Mattew 5:45) It is especially comforting to remember this when I have done something bad and is feeling very guilty over it. Repent and God will be forgive. :)

What about you? What does the sun remind you of?

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Anyway, I love the dress that I'm wearing today! A lovely summer frock with slash neckline and frontal pleats:


Long enough for work too! :) Got it from Amber Avenue!

Enjoy your Thursday night, all! :)

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Wednesday, 27 April 2011

Shoe-Shopping.

Let's see...


Tired eyes, happy smile...

Yup, I went shopping last night! Hee.

Dropped boyfriend a message before I left that office yesterday to let him know that I would be meeting my sister for shoe-shopping and his reply was:

"What why are you buying shoes again!"

Heeey, I may have a few pairs sitting untouched in the shoe cabinet but everyone makes shopping mistakes right? :( I always leave shoe shops thinking "yup, I would wear that, its not that high." But it turns out that it is pretty high. And that's not good for me because of this.

Nonetheless, that reply got me on guard - no shopping mistakes this time please! I already don't earn enough!

Okays I take that back, God always gives enough. :)

So, I prayed and prayed for wisdom to buy the right shoes and I got these!


Especially happy with the Aldo buy, because 1) it looks nice on my feet, 2) its not that high (sounds dangerously familiar but it really isn't!) and 3) that salesperson was really a joy to shop with. Good service is so hard to come by these days. The Nine West and Steve Madden people sulked in an instant once I said no the pairs I tried on. Not nice at all. Shop at Aldo, Raffles City everyone!

A big thank you to my sister Ling, for letting me drag her from store to store just to find the right fit!

Many people would kill die do something extreme to have a sister like you. :) Haha.

Thank God for good buys and good company!

End of lunch time; back to work! 

Have a good day everyone! :)

P.S. Loving the details on my soft chiffon dress today from MDS Collections!



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Tuesday, 26 April 2011

Pretty in Flats.

My only pair of strappy flat sandals just got utterly ruined by the rain two days back. And there's this thing about my feet that keeps daily heel-wearing an impossibility - they've got unsually high archs! Putting too much pressure on the balls of my feet gives me swollen heels that take days to heal.



I almost managed to get a permanent medical certificate while I was schooling in Junior College, which would get me off all physical activities. The doctor got my hopes up and then finally decided that I can still run with the arch. As you can tell, I'm no athelete.

Anyways, with this arch problem, I try to stay off heels as much as I can, even on formal occasions like weddings and stuff! 


I've been hunting for inspiration for my next pair of flats. It ain't no mean feat to find a pair of flats that works well for work and other formal occasions. :( But still, I found a few lovely looks online:

Alexander Mcqueen

Stella McCartney

Christian Louboutin

Diane Von Furstenberg

J. Crew

Miu Miu

Roberto Cavialli

Sigerson Morrison

Especially love the pair from Miu Miu! Big on nudes lately, just like the rest of the world.

Now, I just need time and good company for some serious shopping!

*Credits: All outfits from http://www.net-a-porter.com/.



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Monday, 25 April 2011

Jet-Setting.

Its been 4 months since the Bali trip in December and I'm feeling restless again! So many people have already made holiday plans and I'm itching to book myself a trip too.


Its funny, I never liked travelling when I was in my previous job, which required me to fly once a month. Now that I'm out of it, I seem to love going away! It isn't a case of discontentment though... flying for work and flying for leisure are entirely different experiences. When you fly for work, you work 24/7. When you fly for leisure, you play and rest 24/7! 

Going to HK with sister in June and I CAN'T WAIT. *bounces on seat with excitement* Travelling with family rocks 'cos there's really nothing much to get used to. We've had the worst fights and best heart-to-heart talks. Thank God that I have a friend in my sister. :) Its a blessing that I really cherish.

Back to travelling plans, there are plans for a trip to Aussie for all the '86-ers from church. 5 of us, a nice number for car rentals. :D Can't wait for that too! I've been to Aussie when I was in primary school but I remember almost none of it now. I've got the memory of a goldfish. :(

Anyways, boyfriend and I were talking about travelling over dinner yesterday and he kept harping on wanting to travel alone in June and I don't know why but I started crying. I suppose I felt worried but even I was amazed when the tears just flowed without warning. Sometimes I cry so easily!!! Must be pms. 

So I just sat there and teared for about 20 seconds while chowing on my bah chor mee. It was a ?! moment mixed with a good amount of embarrassment. Who cries in public while eating bah chor mee?! 

*smacks self*

Oh and happy easter! :)
Here's my favourite song on Jesus' glorious and joyous resurrection:


It's indeed worthy of celebration. :)


Thank you Jesus!

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Saturday, 23 April 2011

Good Friday.

is good because Jesus took our punishment and freed us from the grasp of sin.



its a gift for everyone and anyone. Have you claimed yours yet?

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Our gift for parents' day this year is a fun project: a CD with 8 of our favourite worship songs, music by the talented people from church and vocals by us! :)

We spent an hour today recording the music tracks with music prodigy Huey. Minus the time to set up the recording system and settle down, she took only 20 mins to finish 5 beautiful piano tracks! In her own words, "God created me so He's the real prodigy."

Indeed He is. :)

We'll record the 3 guitar tracks tomorrow after service and the vocals *gulp* next sunday at John's with his power song system (which he usually charges $40 per hour for!).

Thanksgiving to God for planting the idea in our heads, for providing the people and equipment to make it work and also for the gift of music. :)

Shall upload the songs on youtube when we're done kays! Must pray for good voices on recording day. :)

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It was a Good Friday well spent.

Thank God for everything!

Time for bed!

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